Sunday, December 02, 2012

WAKE UP CALL

This letter is sent to Ellen Ng Ruo Chee:

Hi Ellen,

It's time to wake up and that to realize that this relationship is over. She is right, you both are in denial. Thinking that love is everything. Yes, love is everything but we all still need to eat and live and enjoy life. Where does that come from? You got to work hard and save hard.

Please start taking your life seriously. It takes you 28 years to realize this. And you have to thank her for this. Maybe after you decide to be friends with her. Treat her to a good dinner. She is saving your life in the long run with another partner.

Quit sobbing, sulking, moaning about she is heartless and she did not give any signs. You know that she had given some signs, maybe not that clear. Her everyday nagging, her constant roll eyes, the subtitle telling you off. Those are signs. You chose to ignore, turn a deaf ear.

Okay, I guess the only part on your end is that you fought for the relationship. Not in the practical ways, but you care for her, you pamper her, you look out for her. But hey, who knows, 5 years down the road, you're single and she's single. You two might have a shot at it. But for now, please clean up your act and prove to others, you're able to take care of yourself and others.

You should be able to stand up and say things like, I can take care of her emotionally and financially. It's a whole package. No more big baby. That will only happen during the sleepy hours. So, I say, no more drinking, no more smoking, no more delaying your bills, no more trying to act like some big arse monkey.

2013 is the year for you to work hard and to prove to all that you're capable for bigger things in life. And you said that you change, the change is for you, yourself and not others. You need to be aware of this. So, push on, push harder, please do not give up.

Good luck, Ellen. All the best!
You can do it!

Realistic,
Other me

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