Quailty Bored!

what exactly is the difference between dating and a relationship?:

The girl that i am dating asked me this question, this afternoon. It was something that came so randomly. I took it seriously and answered: "to me, dating means that i'm not allow to call you my 'gf' YET & certain boundries can't cross."

Let me explain here. Dating. It may be just a mere term and to someone out there, this term might not even exist! Oh well, dating or relationship involves some levels of sensitivity and paranoia. During the 'dating process', you may only allow to use up to less den 50% of that stage. If you're over that 50%, you might as well called her your 'gf'.

Wel, she also added in 'level of commitment'. Maybe that's true but i always put in 100% before i date anyone. This so, i can be sure that i'm putting in 150% or more when i'm in the relationship with her. Call me old fashion or conservative, i don't give a fvck. When i want something to be done nicely, i want to make sure it's at least 100% if not, why bother. Waste of time.

I was chatting with Rach one day. I realised, i've never even mention to anyone at all about my ex anymore. haha. I laughed as i was relating to Rach. I used to rattle her alot to everyone. Now, i just laughed it along. I'm not being mean here. I've moved on. A great leap!

The familiar pain is here today. It has stopped ever since that woman stepped out of my life. But today, the hurt i got resembles the past. It's a good thing. It prove something. Only something close to my heart is able to give that amount of effect.

Maybe it's not that important after-all. Whose heart are brand new? Maybe it's the wrong time, right place? Or wrong time, wrong place? It has been very kind of him, to introduce such a lady to me. I'm thankful, so thankful that everynight, i pray for his kindness. "Too good to be true."

I understood.